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The Ego's Role, Protecting Your Inner Child.

  • Oct 10, 2023
  • 4 min read

Updated: Oct 17, 2023


Blue alien child in swaddling

By; Rev Darin Conner MNLP CH.T

Welcome. This week, we embark on a fascinating journey through the intricate landscapes of the self, focusing on one of the most enigmatic aspects of our existence, The Ego's Role. This mysterious and often misunderstood facet of our being plays a pivotal role in shaping our perceptions, behaviors, and the very core of our identity.


The Ego is the Armor, and the Inner Child is the Treasure:

a knight looking like a super hero

Imagine your inner child as a precious treasure chest filled with your authentic self, innocence, and pure emotions. In its original state, it's open, radiant, and untouched. As you grow and navigate the complexities of life, your experiences shape your Ego, which can be likened to a suit of armor. This armor is designed to protect your inner child from the challenges and uncertainties of the world.


However, sometimes, this armor becomes heavy and restrictive, limiting your ability to connect with the treasure within. The Ego may become overprotective, guarding against perceived threats and dangers. It may accumulate dents and scratches from life's battles, and at times, it can obstruct the light of your inner child, casting shadows.


In our quest to understand the essence of the Ego, let us imagine it as a formidable suit of armor. From a metaphysical perspective, this armor represents the layers of protection we build around ourselves throughout our lives. Just as a knight dons armor to safeguard themselves in a dangerous world, our Ego forms as a response to the challenges and uncertainties we encounter.


From a psychological viewpoint, the Ego is the conscious mind, responsible for shaping our self-image and providing us with a sense of identity. Over time, it becomes a complex web of learned behaviors, defense mechanisms, and the persona we present to the world. In our metaphor, this protective armor is the Ego, designed to shield our inner selves from the battles of life.


The Inner Child as a Treasure

beautiful blonde child in armor

At the core of our being resides a wellspring of authenticity, creativity, and spontaneous emotion, the inner child. This inner child is akin to the treasure within us. It symbolizes the pure essence of who we are, free from societal conditioning and self-preservation.


From a metaphysical perspective, the inner child is the source of our authenticity. It's the part of us that expresses genuine emotions and desires, much like the hidden treasure waiting to be unearthed beneath the layers of armor.


As we progress through life, our cognitive and social development shapes the interplay between the Ego and the inner child. During this journey from childhood to adulthood, the armor of the Ego is forged. Our experiences, interactions, and societal expectations all contribute to developing this protective shield.


The transition from a more childlike state of innocence to the armored Ego is not inherently harmful. It equips us with the necessary tools to navigate life's complexities. However, it can also lead to an imbalance if the armor overshadows the treasure within. The shadow of the Ego may obscure the authentic spontaneity of the inner child.


Healing and Integration


The relationship between the Ego and the inner child isn't one of contradiction but of balance. Picture a knight in armor who learns to navigate the battlefield and the serene meadows gracefully. Similarly, we must learn to balance our Ego and inner child to navigate life's challenges and joys.

Asian child at peace and creative

Recognizing when the armor becomes burdensome or restrictive is vital. The signs might include emotional numbness, a lack of spontaneity, or a sense of disconnection. At such times, it's the inner child, the treasure within, seeking to reestablish its presence. To achieve this balance, we must embark on a journey of healing and integration.


This process involves peeling back the layers of Ego-driven behaviors and learned patterns. It's about gaining awareness of the stories and beliefs we've accumulated.


Meditation, mindfulness, and therapeutic practices offer potent tools for unveiling the treasure within. We allow the inner child's authenticity to shine through by healing the armor.


Embracing the Vulnerable Self

ego and inner child as one

Integrating the Ego and the inner child empowers us to embrace vulnerability. Instead of seeing vulnerability as a weakness, we recognize it as the expression of our authentic self. Much like a knight who removes their armor to engage more freely in peaceful activities, we, too, can embrace our inner child and live with greater authenticity.


Ultimately, the goal is to integrate the Ego and the inner child, much like the knight who wears the armor gracefully but can also remove it when the battle is won. This integration allows us to navigate life's challenges with wisdom and authenticity.


The Ego, now a tool rather than a burden, assists us in interacting with the world, while the inner child infuses our experiences with spontaneity, joy, and creativity. We become the knights of our existence, donning the armor when needed but never losing sight of the treasure within.


Conclusion


In the profound metaphor of the "Ego as Armor" and the "Inner Child as Treasure," we discover a timeless exploration of self-discovery and authenticity. As we heal the armor and integrate both aspects, we embark on a journey of balance, vulnerability, and self-acceptance.


Thank you for joining us on this profound journey of self-discovery. We hope you found insights and inspiration to embark on your path of self-integration and authenticity. If you enjoyed this article, please share it with others on their quest for self-discovery and inner harmony.

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Rev. Darin Conner MNLP CH.t

Rev. Darin Conner is an ordained Priest in The Divine Order of Melchizedek and a highly experienced Spiritual Consultant with over 20 years of professional experience. After years of dedicated study. he holds multiple certifications, such as a Reiki Master, a Certified Hypnotherapist by The American Board of Hypnotherapy, and a Certified Master Practitioner by The Society of NLP. Rev. Darin is also experienced in various fields, such as Astrology, Divination, Metaphysics, and Esotericism, making him well-equipped to address diverse spiritual needs.

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